Tag Archives: sex

Fix It And Stop Being Bitches

Posted on November 22, 2014 by MyJourney

I’ve been catching up on my porn-addiction/sex-addict blogs over the past few days. All of them, ALL OF THEM, including my old posts, are the same thing. • I’m in pain • I’m trying to stop • Something happened and … Continue reading →

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The Gorilla

Posted on October 31, 2014 by MyJourney

My major hang-up in life, right now, is my marriage. Specifically my lack of intimacy with My Wife. We have made love exactly 3 times in 2014. Once in January, twice in June. That is not a complaint, it is … Continue reading →

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Today Was A Good Day

Posted on October 19, 2014 by MyJourney

She let me hold her. At first I thought it was because our room was chilly and maybe that’s true. But it happened. Sometime during the night, I snuggled up to her and wrapped her up with my arms. That’s … Continue reading →

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Sex Poll

Posted on August 5, 2014 by MyJourney

POLL Do you expect to have sex on your anniversary? My Bride says not everyone expects sex on their anniversary. I say she’s very wrong. Sure, there’s probably an invalid, prisoner of war or some odd situation, but I’d feel … Continue reading →

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Unhealthy Bait And Switch

Posted on August 5, 2014 by MyJourney

I was hit with a slow moving steam roller today. I say slow moving because I’ve been watching it approach for the past few days but was denying it. This is likely going to sound dickish because I’m a man … Continue reading →

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Birthday, Anniversary, And Itchy, Oh My!

Posted on July 31, 2014 by MyJourney

My birthday is July 22nd. 1 year ago I was very upset because I didn’t get my “Traditional Birthday Blow Job” as she always called it. In fact, I didn’t get so much as a how do you do. Yeah…happy … Continue reading →

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I like Pie

Posted on June 25, 2014 by MyJourney

Therapy Exchange Of The Day “I used to think that whenever she turned me down for sex, she was turning me down as a person.” Right, because people with BPD have a hard time distinguishing the difference. Think of it … Continue reading →

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Not Feeling It

Posted on June 22, 2014 by MyJourney

I’ve been home for exactly 2 weeks. They have been an astonishing time. I won’t say we’ve had a perfect time because we haven’t. She hasn’t upset me or even remotely frustrated me, but I’m fairly certain I did that … Continue reading →

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Sex And Pain

Posted on May 24, 2014 by MyJourney

There are 2 axioms I have learned through life and blogging. 1. Sex sells 2. Pain brings in viewers I’m a numbers guy, which is shocking to me. When writing research papers in grad school, I was far more confident … Continue reading →

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The Sex Addict’s Superfecta

Posted on May 15, 2014 by MyJourney

I have identified a trigger. Highly charged emotional situations send me off looking to medicate. I experienced some pretty sweet joy today. I also experienced some solid pain. It appears that, when triggers are involved, negative outweighs positive. Ok, now … Continue reading →

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