Tag Archives: sex-addiction

Don’t Think About Pink Elephants

I stopped focusing on sex/porn addiction issues in late July, 2014. Since that time, I have found that I have ZERO issues with sex/porn addiction issues. It’s the damnedest thing ever. That was when I began focusing on my mental … Continue reading

Posted in Mental Health, Sex, Sex Addiction, Therapy | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

Sharing, Hurts, Heals

re·cov·er·y riˈkəvərē/ noun 1. a return to a normal state of health, mind, or strength. synonyms: recuperation, convalescence. improvement, rallying, picking up, upturn, upswing. antonyms: relapse, deterioration 2. the action or process of regaining possession or control of something stolen … Continue reading

Posted in Recovery, Relationship, Sex Addiction | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

Not Feeling It

I’ve been home for exactly 2 weeks. They have been an astonishing time. I won’t say we’ve had a perfect time because we haven’t. She hasn’t upset me or even remotely frustrated me, but I’m fairly certain I did that … Continue reading

Posted in Marriage Issues, Relationship, Sex, Sex Addiction | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

Why Count The Days?

I am well over a month of sobriety. I couldn’t even begin to tell you when my new sobriety date is. I do know it’s sometime during the first week of May, but that’s as close as I can get. … Continue reading

Posted in Healing, Recovery, Sex Addiction | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Addicted, Restricted, Tempted

The first week of separation was, shall we say, spent in the wilderness. You could also say that I wasn’t too worried about purity either. That all changed on May 10, a scant 4 days into separation. Perusing the standard … Continue reading

Posted in Healing, Recovery, Sex Addiction, Victory | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Confusing Times

I’ve lived my entire life with my head buried in the sands of selfishness. I was told to be selfless and serve My Bride, which I agree with. Then I’m told to put recovery as my #1 priority. That seems … Continue reading

Posted in Healing, Marriage Issues, Progress, Recovery, Sex Addiction | Tagged , , , | 3 Comments

The Reality Of Getting Into The Game

I found an article this evening that affected me pretty strongly. I’m going to list its major points and then deconstruct them. How porn affects your relationships 1. Regular users of porn have shown greater difficulty or inability to become … Continue reading

Posted in Depression, emotion, Healing, Lesson, Marriage Issues, Progress, Recovery, Sex Addiction | Tagged , , , | 2 Comments