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Consequences

I’ve been hurting My Wife for years and because of that she is incapable of intimacy. Her frequent statement ofI Don’t know if it’s ever coming back doesn’t seem to be just because of my extracurricular activities. No, it’s because … Continue reading

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30 Day Challenge Day 7

Day 7 What Makes You Happy? As a person who experienced rejection most of his life, I am made mist happy any time I receive ANY type of recognition or positive feedback. Positive attention is like drug to me. I … Continue reading

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30 Day Challenge Day 4

Day 4 My Parents Dad is a second generation American from New York. Mom is from Oklahoma. I really don’t know much about them as people. Dad was a machinist in the air force during Vietnam and mom lived in … Continue reading

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30 Day Life Challenge

Originally posted on ~Borderline~I~Am~:
30 Day Life Challenge Day 1:  What is your personal mission? Day 2:  Do you think that you can stick with this challenge for the 30 days? Day 3:  Your first love? Day 4: …

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Nooope

I THOUGHT I had entered recovery for my pornography/sex addiction way back in November 2013. I read something back in May 2014 that said, “If you’re still ‘self-pleasuring’ you’re not in recovery.” That kind of hit me like a load of bricks. … Continue reading

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Right Thoughts And Stuff

Right actions bring right thoughts. That.s something my SA sponsor told me time and again. Maybe it was because I thought he was creepy or I was simply rebellious of the program and recovery (it was likely both), I didn’t want … Continue reading

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God Hit Me Again

Some of the recovering steps may seem odd or unnecessary. But each step is critical if we’re determined to trek the proven path to freedom. Celebrate Recovery Holy crap-a-roonie! I had thought most all of the recovery steps were unnecessary … Continue reading

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Facepalm, Thanks

“It is the process itself that leads to healing. The very experiences of being patient, having self-doubt, wondering what else tou have to go through, going through copious amounts of time thinking and going through exercises that seem pointless are … Continue reading

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Blow Upon My Garden

Originally posted on The Forgiven Wife:
? “Blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out.” Song of Solomon 4:16 Let me begin by stating the obvious: the sexual arousal of a woman carries a distinctive scent. It is…

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Balance Restored

Originally posted on The Forgiven Wife:
I spent ten hours in the car with my daughter yesterday as we drove to Kansas so she can spend time with her boyfriend’s family. Not long into our trip, we realized that the…

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