Category Archives: Sex Addiction

Fix It And Stop Being Bitches

I’ve been catching up on my porn-addiction/sex-addict blogs over the past few days. All of them, ALL OF THEM, including my old posts, are the same thing. • I’m in pain • I’m trying to stop • Something happened and … Continue reading

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Don’t Think About Pink Elephants

I stopped focusing on sex/porn addiction issues in late July, 2014. Since that time, I have found that I have ZERO issues with sex/porn addiction issues. It’s the damnedest thing ever. That was when I began focusing on my mental … Continue reading

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Unhealthy Bait And Switch

I was hit with a slow moving steam roller today. I say slow moving because I’ve been watching it approach for the past few days but was denying it. This is likely going to sound dickish because I’m a man … Continue reading

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The Sex Addict’s Corollary

It has been many moons since I have written and much has happened. Whence last I wrote, I was on the proverbial mountaintop and ascending at incredible rates. My mental state was at a lifetime high, my marriage was in … Continue reading

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Sharing, Hurts, Heals

re·cov·er·y riˈkəvərē/ noun 1. a return to a normal state of health, mind, or strength. synonyms: recuperation, convalescence. improvement, rallying, picking up, upturn, upswing. antonyms: relapse, deterioration 2. the action or process of regaining possession or control of something stolen … Continue reading

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Everything Happens And Then…

November 16, 2013 Full disclosure of all sexual activity related to pornography addiction. November 17, 2013 My Bride displays signs of shock never before seen. Why did you do this to me? Blank stares, other-worldly voice. November 18, 2013 A … Continue reading

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Not Feeling It

I’ve been home for exactly 2 weeks. They have been an astonishing time. I won’t say we’ve had a perfect time because we haven’t. She hasn’t upset me or even remotely frustrated me, but I’m fairly certain I did that … Continue reading

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Why Count The Days?

I am well over a month of sobriety. I couldn’t even begin to tell you when my new sobriety date is. I do know it’s sometime during the first week of May, but that’s as close as I can get. … Continue reading

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Addicted, Restricted, Tempted

The first week of separation was, shall we say, spent in the wilderness. You could also say that I wasn’t too worried about purity either. That all changed on May 10, a scant 4 days into separation. Perusing the standard … Continue reading

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The BPD’s Guide To…

I have the distinct privilege of enjoying 2 delightful mental illnesses. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) as well as the super-fun Bipolar Disorder. Bipolar is also known as Manic Depression. People like me have enormous mood swings, switching from depressed to … Continue reading

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