Category Archives: Sex

Fix It And Stop Being Bitches

I’ve been catching up on my porn-addiction/sex-addict blogs over the past few days. All of them, ALL OF THEM, including my old posts, are the same thing. • I’m in pain • I’m trying to stop • Something happened and … Continue reading

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Don’t Think About Pink Elephants

I stopped focusing on sex/porn addiction issues in late July, 2014. Since that time, I have found that I have ZERO issues with sex/porn addiction issues. It’s the damnedest thing ever. That was when I began focusing on my mental … Continue reading

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The Gorilla

My major hang-up in life, right now, is my marriage. Specifically my lack of intimacy with My Wife. We have made love exactly 3 times in 2014. Once in January, twice in June. That is not a complaint, it is … Continue reading

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Sex Poll

POLL Do you expect to have sex on your anniversary? My Bride says not everyone expects sex on their anniversary. I say she’s very wrong. Sure, there’s probably an invalid, prisoner of war or some odd situation, but I’d feel … Continue reading

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Unhealthy Bait And Switch

I was hit with a slow moving steam roller today. I say slow moving because I’ve been watching it approach for the past few days but was denying it. This is likely going to sound dickish because I’m a man … Continue reading

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I like Pie

Therapy Exchange Of The Day “I used to think that whenever she turned me down for sex, she was turning me down as a person.” Right, because people with BPD have a hard time distinguishing the difference. Think of it … Continue reading

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Not Feeling It

I’ve been home for exactly 2 weeks. They have been an astonishing time. I won’t say we’ve had a perfect time because we haven’t. She hasn’t upset me or even remotely frustrated me, but I’m fairly certain I did that … Continue reading

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