Category Archives: Sex

Fix It And Stop Being Bitches

I’ve been catching up on my porn-addiction/sex-addict blogs over the past few days. All of them, ALL OF THEM, including my old posts, are the same thing. • I’m in pain • I’m trying to stop • Something happened and … Continue reading

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Don’t Think About Pink Elephants

I stopped focusing on sex/porn addiction issues in late July, 2014. Since that time, I have found that I have ZERO issues with sex/porn addiction issues. It’s the damnedest thing ever. That was when I began focusing on my mental … Continue reading

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The Gorilla

My major hang-up in life, right now, is my marriage. Specifically my lack of intimacy with My Wife. We have made love exactly 3 times in 2014. Once in January, twice in June. That is not a complaint, it is … Continue reading

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Sex Poll

POLL Do you expect to have sex on your anniversary? My Bride says not everyone expects sex on their anniversary. I say she’s very wrong. Sure, there’s probably an invalid, prisoner of war or some odd situation, but I’d feel … Continue reading

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Unhealthy Bait And Switch

I was hit with a slow moving steam roller today. I say slow moving because I’ve been watching it approach for the past few days but was denying it. This is likely going to sound dickish because I’m a man … Continue reading

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I like Pie

Therapy Exchange Of The Day “I used to think that whenever she turned me down for sex, she was turning me down as a person.” Right, because people with BPD have a hard time distinguishing the difference. Think of it … Continue reading

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Not Feeling It

I’ve been home for exactly 2 weeks. They have been an astonishing time. I won’t say we’ve had a perfect time because we haven’t. She hasn’t upset me or even remotely frustrated me, but I’m fairly certain I did that … Continue reading

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Think About It

I was doing a Bible study a few minutes ago. The passages spoke straight to my heart. I needed to write about it, of course. Their mother has been unfaithful and has conceived them in disgrace. She said, ‘I will … Continue reading

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Sex And Pain

There are 2 axioms I have learned through life and blogging. 1. Sex sells 2. Pain brings in viewers I’m a numbers guy, which is shocking to me. When writing research papers in grad school, I was far more confident … Continue reading

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Victory Comes Through God

Sex and porn addiction is a living hell. That’s pretty obvious, especially for the partner of the addict. For My Bride it’s the worst thing to ever happen to her. In my case, the addiction and everything that goes along … Continue reading

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