Category Archives: Gratefulness

Today Was A Good Day

Posted on October 19, 2014 by MyJourney

She let me hold her. At first I thought it was because our room was chilly and maybe that’s true. But it happened. Sometime during the night, I snuggled up to her and wrapped her up with my arms. That’s … Continue reading →

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A Map With Directions

Posted on October 7, 2014 by MyJourney

Funny how things work out when you identify the problem. Attitudes change. Smiles erupt from faces a little more easily. If not smiles, the frown that was constant was replaced with a neutral look. When I sent My Wife the … Continue reading →

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Keeping Score And Seeing Other’s Problems

Posted on September 17, 2014 by MyJourney

This guy emailed his wife a spreadsheet of all the times she turned him down for sex AND her reasons why over a 7 week period. SHE posted it to reddit. That link takes you to a stupid video in … Continue reading →

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Pain To Chill

Posted on August 16, 2014 by MyJourney

My Bride and I had a tough conversation last night. Things had gotten to the point where I couldn’t talk to her for fear of sparking an argument. It seemed anytime I tried to have any kind if conversation beyond, … Continue reading →

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Birthday, Anniversary, And Itchy, Oh My!

Posted on July 31, 2014 by MyJourney

My birthday is July 22nd. 1 year ago I was very upset because I didn’t get my “Traditional Birthday Blow Job” as she always called it. In fact, I didn’t get so much as a how do you do. Yeah…happy … Continue reading →

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Everything Happens And Then…

Posted on June 24, 2014 by MyJourney

November 16, 2013 Full disclosure of all sexual activity related to pornography addiction. November 17, 2013 My Bride displays signs of shock never before seen. Why did you do this to me? Blank stares, other-worldly voice. November 18, 2013 A … Continue reading →

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A Dream Come True

Posted on June 6, 2014 by MyJourney

“We need to make sure and do this right. We’ll make sure not to see one a other tomorrow, then have our Saturday date…” -Me, last night About that… I was awakened at the crack of 9:30 by my phone … Continue reading →

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Gratefulness 5-30-2014

Posted on May 30, 2014 by MyJourney

Today I am grateful for 1. My Bride 2. My children 3. Humor 4. Kisses 5. My bulldog 6. Cute smiles 7. Double entendre 8. Dirty jokes 9. 80’s music 10. Bacon I find it interesting how I can yo-yo … Continue reading →

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Gratefulness 5-29-2014

Posted on May 29, 2014 by MyJourney

Today I’m grateful for: 1. Humor 2. Family 3. 2nd, 3rd…..149,237,216,431 chances 4. God 5. A patient wife I experienced a few humorous moments today. This was an improvement. The more I think on it, the more I realize my … Continue reading →

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Gratefulness 5-28-2014

Posted on May 28, 2014 by MyJourney

I’ve learned an important part of recovery is to express gratefulness. One of the best ways of doing this is through a Gratefulness List, 3-5 items (in no specific order) each day. Here goes… I’m Grateful For 1. Healthy relationships … Continue reading →

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