Category Archives: Amends

Half Measures Avail Us Nothing

Posted on October 7, 2014 by MyJourney

I received a tremendous comment from a reader today in response to my last post. This comment has completely changed my outlook on My Wife and our marriage. Her walls are up and is likely waiting for the next turbulence … Continue reading →

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On The Clock

Posted on September 24, 2014 by MyJourney

I sent word, via text, to My Bride that I have given myself the arbitrary deadline of October 31 to see some sort of improvement or I will leave her. If I cannot see some improvement, no matter how small, … Continue reading →

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The Back Hand Of Amends

Posted on June 15, 2014 by MyJourney

We live on a farm in Oklahoma. It was founded during the land run and our house is the original structure, built in 1904. It’s old. My Bride’s 88 year old great-grandfather (step) lives across the street. His step-son is … Continue reading →

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