This guy emailed his wife a spreadsheet of all the times she turned him down for sex AND her reasons why over a 7 week period. SHE posted it to reddit.
That link takes you to a stupid video in which the headline reads something to the effect of, Man Discovers The Quickest Way To End Marriage. The “story” speaks about the reddit comments in response to the wife’s post. The one that caught my attention.
“If I were rejected 89% of the time, I know my self-confidence and my confidence in my relationship would be shot.”
I have 2 major comments about that comment.
1. I WISH I had an 11% success rate. I would kill for that type of progress. I think I’m currently sitting somewhere under .01% for the year.
Today is September 17, the 260th day of the year. My wife and I have made love twice and that was early June.
My success rate for the year is 0.00769%
It was actually far worse than I had thought.
That is, of course assuming I requested sex every day.
Since I’ve been accused of constantly hounding my wife for sex, let’s remove 30% of those days.
For a success rate of 0.11%
That’s still pretty damned low.
Let’s cook the books some more.
260-156= 104 hounding attempts
For a success rate of 0.192%
I would KILL puppies for that 11% success rate, you asshole. Don’t keep track of her intimacy like that and SHARE it with her.
2. Yes, this type of thing destroys the confidence of all involved, Mr. Commenter on that news site, dude.
It’s not fun for her either.
She doesn’t wake up looking for ways to disappoint her husband.