Dude, Listen To Them

I just finished meeting with the Danny, pastor of my church. I unloaded my story and my fears.

Your Bride is working on her issues. God is working on her in the way she needs Him to. Martin, you need to take this time and allow God to do His work in you too.

It’s as if there’s a single thing I must remember. Something I’ve heard somewhere before…
Take care of you and allow God to heal you. My Bride will allow God to heal her in the way she needs.

Pastor Danny had some very encouraging things to say.
If you will allow God to do His work in you, Your Bride will see the change. All she needs is hope that you are changing and the changes are permanent and real.

The Holy Spirit is telling me the two of you are not through. I have no doubt, through the voice of The Spirit, that if you allow Him to do His work in you and in her, you will come back together stronger than before.

The two of you will be able, unashamedly, to tell your story and THAT will minister to others.

He said, If you will allow God to do His work in you, you will be fine. If you stay out of the way and allow Your Bride to heal in her way, the way she needs God to work in her, she will be ok. If the two of you are patient, God WILL transform you. Be patient.

I guess if people say the same things to you, over and over, there might be something to it.

My thinking got me in this mess. I sorta need to listen to what God is telling me through all of these people.

About MyJourney

I'm a 41 year old married father of 3. I am a sex addict. This blog is to document my progress, recovery and marital growth. Pornography is an evil creation. Let my experiences serve as a warning to all.
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