The 5 Love Languages can be a game-changer in marriage. We went through it several years ago and it made a dramatic difference. However, I was living a secret life, so we could only go so far with intimacy.
DO NOT fuck things up like I did.
Love your wife
Cherish your wife
Honor your wife
No matter how bad you think things are, you’re wrong. That woman loves you and would do anything for you. You think she WANTS you to do that there? It’s because she lives you. Act accordingly.
How many times have you looked your loved one in his or her beautiful eyes during a time of conflict and thought to yourself–“Why don’t you understand me?”
You think you’ve expressed yourself clearly…You’ve used the best non-violent communication you know, “I” statements, and even still, he/she stands there, just looking at you, not getting you at all. This is a frustrating time in a relationship.
You want closeness and intimacy with your loved one, but you need to first get to a place of understanding in order to have it.. You want to understand and be understood and more than anything, you want to feel each other’s love.
There have been thousands of books written on the differences in the way men/women communicate, the way different personality types communicate, the way people who were brought up with very different role models communicate, the way people with different astrological signs communicate…
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